Key Women Kicks off its Fruit of the Spirit Series

by Justine Engelbrecht

Key Women is all about being inspired by the amazing team of Cornerstone women, and on the 5th of February they welcomed everyone with red velvet cupcakes, mini quiche and delicious coffee – the perfect way to celebrate and fellowship in the month of love.

The theme for 2013 is the Fruit of the Spirit and we’re being encouraged to examine ourselves and ask the question – is the Fruit of the Spirit growing in our lives?

The Fruits of the Spirit are:

Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, Self-Control

Adele shared with us the First Fruit which is Love. Here is some of what was shared:

1 Corinthians 13:1

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging symbol.

Words are meaningless without Love.

If I have the gift of the prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

Without Love we cannot have the other Fruits of the Spirit.

If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Fill your heart with Love, with Love we can do so much.

Love is patient, Love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

These are the characteristics of Agape Love:

Love is Patient (not irritable or resentful)

Love is Kind (making yourself useful)

Not being jealous (we must rejoice when others are blessed)

Love does not boast (boasting can make other people feel bad about themselves and what they have). We are only to “Boast in the Lord” – Give Glory to the Lord.

Love is not Proud (Obiadiah Vs 3 – “The pride of your heart has deceived you, you who live in the clefts of the rocks, and make your home on the heights, you who say to yourself ‘who can bring me down to the ground?“)

Love is not rude, Love is not self-seeking, Love is not easily angered.

Psalm 145 vs 8 – The Lord is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love. (We cannot be rich in Love if we have anger).

Proverbs – Fall in love with the word of God.

Proverbs 15 Vs 1 – A soft answer stirs away wrath

Love keeps no record of wrongs. (Once we forgive we must ask God to help us forget)

Speak the Truth – I Peter Ch 4 Vs 8 – love covers a multitude of sins.

Love always protects (Never expose the faults of others, Do not believe wrong of each other.)

Love always Trusts (Do not block yourself off from other people, because you have been hurt in the past.)

Love always hopes (Always expect the best)

Love always perseveres (Hang in there, run the race to the end, enjoy the season you are in.)

Love never fails (Love is not in vain.)

John 13:34, “A new commandment – “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

God gives us the ability to love!

The Next Key Women will be on 5 March at 8:30am. The topic will be Joy. Looking forward to seeing you there!

Prayer and Fasting Weekend 2013

“Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.”

– Matthew 4:4

Every year we have our Prayer and Fasting weekend, where we pray around the clock from a Friday evening, through a Saturday and breaking the fast that Sunday morning at each respective site’s Sunday morning meeting. This year, our Prayer and Fasting Weekend is taking place from 15 – 17 February.

Here’s how the weekend will work:

  • Praying will start on Friday 15 February at a large corporate worship gathering at the Bedfordview site.
  • Prayer sessions will be take place every hour – led by elders and deacons – after the corporate gathering until the next large corporate gathering on the following day (Saturday) at Bedfordview.
  • That large corporate session will take place at 6pm.
  • Prayer will continue in hourly sessions until the 9am morning meeting’s at each respective site.

Why do we fast?

Fasting can be misunderstood to be a mystical or religious practice. Now while it’s true that in a time of fasting you may find yourself experiencing God in a unique way (or you may not), this does not mean the point of the fast is to have a mystical experience.

  • Because eating is something we, as humans, need to do, by fasting we are demonstrating our need for God and His words and His instruction. This is part of Jesus’ meaning in Matthew 4:4 – “Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.”
  • We demonstrate how we rely on God to answer prayer and not any system of our own or this world’s.
  • Fasting is a tool that we use to train ourselves to seek God first and rely on Him above all. This is not a diet – it’s a time to seek God’s face.
  • When you fast, you devote the time you would usually use for eating to prayer. Every time you get hungry, you’re reminded about what it is you’re praying about and how you rely on God more than even bread. You can use those hunger-pains as moments of prayer to God.
  • Our corporate fasting times such as this Prayer and Fasting weekend are typically used to receive direction from God as a church. Use the time to hear what God is saying to us and share any prophetic words you receive with the church and the leaders.

Here are a couple of tips for fasting:

  1. We generally fast from all kinds of food (liquid-only fast) but you don’t have to do this if for any reason you can’t.
  2. If you can’t, you can fast anything else that seems appropriate to you – preferably something that you find you rely on every day or something important to you. Think about fasting TV or music or coffee or chocolate, for example. Yes, the last one is especially difficult!
  3. Liquidised steaks, thick soups, double thick milkshakes and the like are generally not considered ‘liquid-only’. If you have to chew, you’re probably eating! But you’re free to make up your own mind about such things and let God guide you.
  4. If you’re going to do a liquid-only fast, start eating smaller portions than you usually would a few days ahead to help get your body ready.
  5. Whenever you get hungry, use those hunger-pains as a reminder to pray. Offer up some prayer in response. Come through to a session at Bedfordview and join your prayers with the rest of us.
  6. The purpose of the weekend is not to be a hero or to lay guilt on anyone. Use discretion! If you’re feeling very ill, nibble on something light.
  7. After you break the fast, don’t go overboard! Have a light meal and keep it light for a while to get your body back into how it usually functions.
  8. Fast several times in a year so you can grow in this. John Wesley, one of history’s great evangelists, used to fast twice a week. He clearly used fasting very effectively!

Scriptures on fasting

  • In Matthew 4 we see Jesus fasted for forty days and nights in the desert.
  • Acts 14:23 says, “And when they had ordained them elders in every church, and had prayed with fasting, they commended them to the Lord, on whom they believed.” They fasted together, committing the newly appointed elders to the Lord.
  • Acts 13:2 – “As they ministered to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Ghost said, Separate me Barnabas and Saul for the work whereunto I have called them.” As you can see, it was out of a time of corporate prayer and fasting that God told the church to send Paul and Barnabas out to fulfil their Apostolic ministry.

Want more? Here’s 105 verses on fasting.

Other resources

You might enjoy John Piper’s book, A Hunger for God, which you can download here for free.

Breaking Bread

TITLE: Breaking Bread
PREACHER: Shaun Mackay
DATE: 3 FEBRUARY 2013 – Sunday AM

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Prayer

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PREACHER: Shaun Mackay
DATE: 3 FEBRUARY 2013 – Sunday AM

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