The Wards: Hello from Durbs!

Written by Charlene Ward

Hello Cornerstone,

Hello to you all from a (very grateful) windy Durban North. I love it when the wind blows now as then we can cope with the heat. Well, here we are living in Durban and loving it!

We drove down on the 29th of January with Storm our cat travelling with Tarryn and I. She coped very well with the trip and went straight into a beautiful brand new cattery that I found on the Internet – God literally guided me to that website. We stayed in a friend’s flat for three nights (a huge blessing) until we could move into our new rental house on the 1st of February.

The removal van arrived just after 8am and after just over two hours they were unpacked. We had organised a storage facility and had planned to move all the extra furniture that afternoon. However when the team leader/driver of the truck heard about us moving it all ourselves, he offered to put all the extra furniture back into the truck, drive it to the storage facility and then they helped Barry off load it into the garage that we had rented. What a huge blessing as it took them half an hour to do it whereas it would have taken Barry a good few hours to do!! God was so good and took care of the details for us!!

We have spent the past two weeks cleaning, unpacking and getting ourselves set up in our new home. We are very happy here, and our cat has settled in well too. There is a lovely park area nearby which the girls ride their bikes to and play cricket with some of the other teenagers in the afternoons. They are very settled here and enjoying living in Durban North. We have met all our neighbours in our little crescent and they are all so friendly. Sometimes we stand in the road chatting for half an hour or more.

Robyn has settled in well at her school, Virginia Preparatory, and has made some friends. After her first week at school she was given an award for “outstanding effort” as her teacher could see that she was trying hard to catch up her work. You get to wear the badge for a week and then it is someone else’s turn. She is dancing at school as an extra mural and is enjoying it. She wants to go on a Kids camp next weekend that COGS is hosting, and went to their God Chasers equivalent on Friday afternoon for the first time. They call it KICK – it stands for “Kids In Christ’s Kingdom”.

Tarryn has also settled in well at her school, Danville Girls High, and went on her first school tour last week for three days. They went up to Seula which is near Tugela River mouth. She had a great time and got to make more friends. Next Saturday morning their school hosts a “Dad’s and Daughter’s breakfast” which she has bought tickets for. Tarryn is doing Art as an extra mural and may try Choir next term. The girls haven’t started with dancing yet as we are still finding our feet here.

The Wards in Durban North

I have been very busy setting up home, and now am doing my own housekeeping as our place isn’t too big. I have met some moms from Tarryn’s school and on Thursday morning I’m going to join their prayer meeting. They have a “Moms who care” group who meet at Danville every Thursday morning to pray. I have also put my name down to help at Robyn’s school. Every Wednesday morning the staff have a meeting and so they need moms to help out and monitor the corridors, so I have offered to help out and will be a “Corridor Monitor”. Still waiting to hear when my turn is. Never too old to be a “Monitor” – ha ha.

Barry is settling well into his new job at Softworx. Initially he was a bit frustrated as they seemed a bit disorganised and didn’t have things ready for him, but now things are up and running and he has met the clients. He has had to get back into Baan (software system) and remember it all, but it’s coming back to him. He has also been very busy here and working hard on our rental place. Quite a bit of household maintenance needed to be done like fixing the lights as lots of them didn’t work, getting the pool pump working properly etc. But it is all fixed now and we are doing well in our new place. We are so incredibly grateful that it has a little pool as we have been swimming almost every day. In fact Robyn’s blonde streaks in her hair are now green from all the swimming.

More exciting news is that we have a buyer for our house in Edenglen – took the estate agent 20 days to sell our place!!! God is so good and faithful!!! We are waiting to hear if their bond has been granted and then it will be all systems go.

We serve an awesome, amazing God and we are so appreciative of how our Lord has taken care of all the details – both big and small! We are going to visit various churches in the area and see how the Holy Spirit leads us and where He wants us to go.

We all send lots of love to everyone, and thank you for your prayers. God has heard and answered them!

Lots of love,

Barry, Charlene, Tarryn and Robyn

A Remarkable Story of Healing

This testimony of healing – a letter the elders received – was shared at prayer meeting last week. It’s a remarkable story of God’s incredible healing of Hannelie, who was diagnosed with cancer. Her and her family are friends with Marcus and Adele and others in Cornerstone. Let it be an encouragement that Jesus still heals today as he healed in the Scriptures.

Now that Han is at home I thought it helpful to summarise what happened over the last three weeks.

“At the beginning of this month Hannelie was hospitalised with a urinary tract infection. The oncologist saw that her haemoglobin levels were about half the minimum level, and based on his experience he gave her two weeks to a month to live.

We were shattered by this news and I took a month off to be with her all the time. Over the next two weeks her condition gradually worsened. She became so weak that she could no longer walk and was delirious 90% of the time.

It was apparent that the phases of death were running their course. Her one kidney started to fail as her urine had a very dark colour. The doctor explained that the brain was not getting sufficient oxygen, hence the delirium, and that this was common in dying.

Friday before last I rushed her to the hospital with another blockage of the intestine. When this happens the body ejects its waste via the only opening possible – upwards – if the normal downwards route is blocked. The same thing happened last year when the tumour grew so large that it obstructed the intestine.

Her oncologist examined her and said that the end was imminent. His assistant confirmed that she would go the same or the following day. He also indicated that Hannelie’s very strong muscle twitches pointed towards her brain busy dying.

That evening she reached a state where she was white as a sheet, ice cold and hardly breathing. I rushed the children to her bedside to see their mother maybe for the last time. Afterwards myself, Nito and Lili prayed earnestly for and over her and we trusted God to save her.

More than two years ago when Hannelie first became diagnosed with cancer God said that he would do a miracle before the nations that would be for His glory. We pleaded with Him to uphold his word. The next morning Hannelie was awake and amazingly she had a clear mind, for the first time in two weeks. She could not stop smiling and told us of the experiences she had with God. She also did not have any more muscle twitches.

The doctor on duty was astonished and at least recognised that they could not explain what happened. Since then Hannelie’s morphine dosage has dropped from 1260mg per day to 480mg with no recurrence of the constant hip pain that she lived with for one year. She also used to take up to six fast acting morphine rescues per day, which she does not even need anymore.

We are continuing to reduce her morphine intake daily to avoid strong withdrawal symptoms. She is still very thin with weak muscles, so still a long road to full recovery.

Oh, I almost forgot, the blocked intestine got sorted out by itself, without any surgery or any other treatment. She is also free from the chronic diarrhea that made her life a living hell for one year (this is due to the radiation therapy).

We are very happy to testify to this miracle which shows that God still heals today, and that even cancer, the dreaded disease of our time, is under His authority. May his name be glorified in the nations because of this. Thank you Lord that you uphold your word.

A Power Christianity vs. a Powerless Christianity

TITLE: A Power Christianity vs. a Powerless Christianity
PREACHER: Mark Meeske
DATE: 26 FEBRUARY 2012 – Sunday PM

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Meet the Lifeteam 2012

With a new year comes a new lifeteam. These dynamic youngsters come from all over the world to serve God and His people. We would like you to get to know them so here are a few ice-breakers. Reading about them is good but don’t be a stranger, make an effort to meet them face to face. They’re part of the family now.

 

Name: Mpho Ntuli – Lifeteam Leader
Age: 20
Hometown: Johannesburg – South Africa

What did you do last year?
Teaching

What do you plan to do next year?
I plan to walk wholly into what God has for me! 🙂

What are your expectations for this year?
One of my biggest prayers for this year’s team is that God would minister to us through His Holy Spirit like none of us have experienced before. Also that this would be a year of raising leaders.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
The Racist Guide to South Africa
My best friend Claudio
Definitely my guitar!

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Name: Shaheedah Aufe
Age: 19
Hometown: Gweru – Zimbabwe

What did you do last year?
Matric

What do you plan to do next year?
Go to Medical School

What are your expectations for this year?
Draw closer to God. Be a very social person and make new friends. Serve God and other people. Have fun, learning and doing new things. And finally be a part of the Cornerstone family.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
A Karen Kingsbury novel
My mother
A TV!

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Name: Jabulile Antoinette Dlamini
Age: 19
Hometown: Jeppestown, Johannesburg – South Africa

What did you do last year?
I completed my Matric

What do you plan to do next year?
I would like to study to become a social worker

What are your expectations for this year?
I would like to learn more about the Gospel. To have more confidence when sharing His Word. I want to serve Him and preach His Word to those who don’t know Him.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
Joy for the Journey
Anika Kruger
My phone, a skipping rope or a ball

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Name: David Edward Wahba
Age: 21
Hometown: Cairo – Egypt

What did you do last year?
I studied a Bachelor’s Degree in Finance

What do you plan to do next year?
I still don’t know but will definitely serve God in whatever way I can.

What are your expectations for this year?
I expect to know God more and what my next step should be. I hope to have a better understanding of God’s call on my life and I look forward to interacting with different cultures and communities.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book (other than the bible), a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
Either Secret Believers or The Shack
Akram – my best friend
My Wii or X-Box

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Name: Mattanja Bakker
Age: 19
Hometown: Noordhorn – Germany

What did you do last year?
Finished school and worked at McDonalds

What do you plan to do next year?
I would like to study History and English.

What are your expectations for this year?
Change. Greater intimacy with God. Improve my English.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
Il Milione
Marco Polo – yes, the famous explorer
Surfboard

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Name: Tshepo Mashiane
Age: 20
Hometown: Springs Kwa Thema – South Africa

What did you do last year?
I was at school in grade 11. I also spent a lot of time doing art.

What do you plan to do next year?
I’m planning on going back to college to finish my studies. I’d like to do a course in Boiler-making

What are your expectations for this year?
My expectation is to know how to share the Gospel. I want to take this year seriously and make the most of it.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
The Bible
Nick Wienand
Soccer ball

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Name: Tshepo “Fish” Sisoko
Age: 20
Hometown: Malvern East, Johannesburg – South Africa

What did you do last year?
Art and swimming.

What do you plan to do next year?
Work and do a swimming instructor’s course

What are your expectations for this year?
To know more about the Gospel and getting to know Jesus more.

You’re going to a deserted island and can take three things. A book, a person and some form of entertainment. What would you choose?
Make God First
Kyle McClean or Kyle Bosman
My swimming gear

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The Consequences of Our Decisions

TITLE: The Consequences of Our Decisions
PREACHER: Hennie Keyter
DATE: 19 FEBRUARY 2012 – Sunday PM

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Acts 1:8 – You Will Receive Power

TITLE: Acts 1:8 – You Will Receive Power
PREACHER: Mark Meeske
DATE: 19 FEBRUARY 2012 – Sunday AM

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An Update from Marcus and Adele

Marcus and Adele are currently in the U.S. with Tyrone Daniel and many others on the NCMI team. They’ve sent us a little update on how things are going there, so here it is:

From Denver
13 February 2012

We’re starting our team meetings Tuesday through to Thursday this week. Please pray for us. God’s will and directing are of paramount importance.

We then go on to spend the weekend and a few days with Kirk and Jan Slow in Ottawa, Canada. We’re looking forward to our ministry time and connecting time there. They do feel like they are on the frontiers of our vision and need all the support and friendship they can get.

We believe God has led them there to plant a base church and already the signs of that are evident.  They are moving into a new venue and are trusting God for greater breakthrough with young people. Nathaniel, their son, is being used by God in this regard!

I’ve heard great reports from home and hear that part two on the Holy Spirit has been well received. This is our season and this is the challenge of the day: how is your relationship with the Holy Spirit? He has taken hold of us and is doing things in us so that He can move through us in a mighty way.

I want to urge us to stay the course. The enemy will try to steal the baby! But we overcome through the blood of the Lamb, the word of our testimony and not loving our lives unto death (Revelation 12:11).

We love you guys and are enjoying the privilege of sailing again! See you soon!

Marcus & Adele

Positioned for Prayer

TITLE: Positioned for Prayer
PREACHER: Ian Weeden
DATE: 12 FEBRUARY 2012 – Sunday PM

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Our Relationship with the Holy Spirit: Jesus’ Teaching on the Holy Spirit

TITLE: Our Relationship with the Holy Spirit: Jesus’ Teaching on the Holy Spirit
PREACHER: Shaun Mackay
DATE: 12 FEBRUARY 2012 – Sunday AM

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